I’ve soon managed to find five ladies that were checking my list and decided to send them a short message. Three replied back and after a couple of back and forth texting I’ve decided one can actually be that one Sugar Baby for me. And my gut didn’t failed me, cause after our face to face meeting she proved to be simply perfect.

She is a student and she has a flexible schedule that allows her to be available when I need her company. I see her twice a month or so, but most of our time together consists in her joining me in my business trips, so it works perfect for me.

What I love the most is that this connection I have with her gave me that boost I’ve needed and that sense of fulfillment and manliness, I needed to bring to my family life.

So, my wife is happier, I’ve got my mojo back and I, once again, go to work happy and eager to do my thing.

When starting a Sugar Relationship always try to set up a couple of rules from the beginning, rules of conduct that can guide your future behavior, like if you’re allowed, or not, to talk through text messages or over the phone, if yes then between what hours (because some Sugar Daddies may have a family at home so they can talk only during business hours).

You must also discuss the financial terms of the relationship and stick to them without being overly greedy by asking for extra stuff later on, or by not respecting your part of the bargain and make the accepted payments.

Discuss about your boundaries and what is permitted and what not in your future interaction and don’t forget that in a Sugar Relationship discretion is the ultimate goal!

And I do just that. For a few hours I make them feel important, I make them relax, laugh, dance, do crazy things and just forget about the infuriating boss from work or the yelling wife and naughty kids he has at home.

In my opinion every relationship is based on a financial agreement, even marriage! The only difference with my Sugar Dates is that I am not hiding that financial need and I am not looking for hidden ways to make my date fulfill some of my desires and wishes. My cards are all out on the table and so are my potential partner’s, and I like it that way! No beating around the bushes, pretending that my concrete, financial needs do not exist. I need someone to offer me a monthly allowance so I can have the means to look the part when we date and someone that can spoil me with nice gifts, and this is what my Sugar Daddies are doing for me!

Dear Sugar Daddies, sugar relationships are not all about money. It can be about nice gifts, unique experiences, traveling the world or just feeling safe in the company of a man that knows what he wants and how to treat a lady.

So, don’t come into the Sugar Bowl with pre-conceptions regarding your financial status! That means that you don’t have to be rich to be a Sugar Daddy, you just have to find the Sugar Baby that suits your means and your lifestyle.

Some ladies are into this lifestyle because they need someone to support their tuition, so they can finish their studies, others are into this because they want to be spoiled with nice gifts by a mature man that knows his way around a woman’s heart, while others are in it for the whole experience: traveling to great places, having a fancy dinner at the newest restaurant in town, seeing a movie in the right company and so on.

Don’t jump to conclusions until you browse the profiles of the Sugar Babies and see exactly what their expectations are and what they can bring to the table.

As for Sugar Babies, 4sd is the place where you get to meet the Sugar Daddy of your dreams, the one willing to offer you the sugar lifestyle that you crave. The only requirement is to be totally honest about yourself and about the things you are looking to get out of your Sugar relationship. Present yourself just as you are, create an intriguing description of your assets, make your personality noticeable and state in a clear manner what your expectations are.

You may need support to pay your college tuition; or you may dream of travelling the world and you need someone to support that dream financially – there are plenty of men out there looking for the same exact thing but they don’t have someone to share the adventure with, so maybe here you’ll meet one another; you may want to finally afford going on shopping sprees – some men are willing to pay for your shopping addiction as long as you are willing to offer them your time and attention; or maybe you just want someone to pamper you just as you are willing to pamper them – there are a lot of men looking for someone to listen to them, to show compassion, love, affection or share a smile and a laugh after a hard day.

Seeking arrangement has never been easier because we offer you a safe place to show your true self and to find someone willing to embrace your weirdness, your desires and your lifestyle. All you need to do, both Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies, is come with an open heart and sincere intentions. Lay it all on the table from the start, let aside the games and just be courageous enough to demand what you need and offer what’s expected of you, in return.

4sd is the place to be if you want to be yourself and enjoy all the amazing things the right partner can offer you!

The answer is simple: because of how fun and simple things can be. Everything is transparent and set up from the start, there are no jealousies, misunderstandings and things that can’t be discussed up front, there is no “meeting the parents” or “fitting into the group of friends”, so the stress of a conventional relationship is being ruled out.