It was a sweet thought but remained just that until one day when I felt I needed to make a change in my lifestyle.  I was feeling constantly angry, nervous, unsatisfied, tired with all the business meetings, negotiations, travels and so on. And all that dissatisfaction was also reflecting into my relationship with my family.

I have a lovely wife, with whom I’ve been best friend and partner for over 20 years, but my attitude was affecting our communication and general well-being. I needed something else, something new to help me feel alive again, to help me relax and get me excited once again.

So, I’ve decided to give Sugar Dating a chance. I’ve entered this website, created a profile and started browsing through Sugar Babies pages. I know what spikes my interest, I have a type and that is – young, dark haired, natural breasts, well-traveled and educated and with a fit body.

Adding a personal touch to your first “hello” message is really important. We’ve always encouraged you to go for the big numbers, that means always try to approach as many people you like as possible, because the number game can never fail you. But that doesn’t mean you can just copy-paste the same “Hi there, I like you” message to all of the ones you’re interested in.

In order to increase your chances of being remembered, you have to stand out from the crowd. Be a little personal in your message so that the person you’re writing to can see you’ve actually payed attention to his/her profile. Start with the usual “hello” and then add that personal touch we’ve been talking about, something like “I’ve seen we’ve have a mutual passion for comic books” or “I love it that you’re also a dog person, because I have a dog that I consider family”. Just pick on something in that person’s profile that you can relate to and start a conversation from there.

Don’t be that “hi angel, you look smashing hot” type of guy, or the “hi baby, I can’t wait for you to take me out to dinner” type of lady. Be classy, keep the standards high and keep it personal!

I still have a life of my own, a great group of friends with whom I like to travel and party, I love to read, to spend a nice weekend alone in my comfy home, to take my pup out in the park or finish the cooking course I’ve just started. It just happens that a couple of days per week I go on amazing dates with more mature men, with great careers, a lot of wisdom to share and the ability to treat me well.

Currently I have three Sugar Daddies, one that I see regularly, like two days per week, one that calls me every time he has to travel for work, asking me to accompany him, and another one that I get to see at least 3 times per month.

All the Sugar Daddies that I’ve encountered seem to look for something deeper, their main focus is on the relationship part – like having someone to talk to, feeling that they are listened and understood, having someone that can pump up their ego, make them feel manly and cared for. For them, the intimate part is an add on, a bonus.